Words of inspiration

Listening is one of the greatest gifts we can give to another human being.
 
Authentic listening is when one is there, as an observable presence to what someone has to say. The difference in listening as the presence versus the person is that presence implies listening without judgment.

In contrast, when one is listening as the person, there is usually labelling or interpreting going on from the person, who is suppose to be listening to you. It is best to hear the other person with a compassionate heart. Listening as the presence is when we are truly giving the gift to others.

When we become the still space the other needs, we are exercising real listening. One should not be thinking about what they are going to say next. Listening is not about pursuing one’s own aims and motives while the other person is talking. Moreover, listening is not about waiting for your turn to talk, as beings on this earth are connected, not separate. By listening as the presence for another, we are in an active state of consciousness. To listen attentively one must be fully aware of what the other is saying; this is active. Being grounded while listening will help you to be focused and hearing the other in an active state of consciousness.

As we near the time of year for giving, remember that listening is a gift. All things are happening in the present moment, that is why we call the present a gift.